T has never said she would be there forever she did say she would work until she was in her 80's. She is in her late 60's and medically things are changing. I know life happens so I didn't anticipate she would always be there no matter what happened. In the beginning she didn't think I would be long term like this. She has said the only way she is going anywhere is if her medical issues get worse. Even then I would be one of the first person to know and she would let me know way in advance so we could could take our time finding the right replacement for her.