It is entirely ridiculous that your coworkers would talk about you in front of a student. How inexcusable and cruel. I'm sure that caught you off guard and likely embarrassed you. How unfair and unethical. What *****es!

I'm so sorry you are having such poor luck at work and that people are assholes to you. You would think they'd be compassionate after the loss I'm sure they are aware you experienced.

Good for you on cutting back on cigarettes. That is a huge step. I remember how hard it was for me to quit so I know how tough it is to do. I hope it gets easier soon! All my love!