i used to party a lot. i also go to bars often with my hubby. ha! - got ya jumpin on this, heh? as i partied and went to bars a lot, i hardly ever touch a drop of alcohol. yes, you can party without alcohol. i've never been able to tolerate much alcohol except one or two drinks once every 6 months or longer. just giving my 2 cents in.... i understand your situation, though.