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Originally Posted by omegalamed
You have a lot going on here (((hugs))) and i feel your pain. We all want respect however some people cannot give what they never learned nor have themselves. So you will have to get the respec elsewhere. We cannot always get the support or affirmation we desire from those we wish it from. You will have to just work on yourself and love yourself. This is a process which takes time, i wish you the best, tc  |
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Thanks for the hugs-
You're right about what you said. I always thought that if I only treated other people with respect and consideration, that they'd do the same for me. Boy, was I ever wrong about that!
My husband wasn't trying to be to mean to me I think. He can be very blunt. I have let other people treat me badly in the past to many times, but I don't anymore. No self respecting person allows themselves to be treated badly by other people.
I have come a long way, and now I no longer take crap from anyone anymore. This time my sis is dead to me. It makes me sad as I really wanted to have a good relationship with her, but I have to accept the fact that she'll never change. Plus, she made it clear that she has zero respect for me.