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Originally Posted by Yismymindblank12
So I looked at the photo with further close examination, it's her child and she is indeed pregnant, but it's definitely not our baby. The photo date was on the document of march 30th of this year. I've not seen or have had sex with her 4 years ago. So I know this was an attempt to get me to be in her life or pay her money for a baby that isn't mine.
She is the lowest of low for me.
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You're making this very personal. It's not personal. It's black and white. Unless and until it can be proven it's your child, you have the right to be left in peace.
If it ends up being your child, let's be honest, it's not the end of the world. Although I'm sure it feels like that.
Right now you are doing exactly what she wants: panicking. That's not in your best interest. I realise you are under attack. But keeping your head while you're under attack is a much better tactic, than buying into her projected fear.
Take a breath, watch a movie, meditate, do anything to get out of panic mode. Give it a rest and come back to it with a determination to keep it in the realms of rational thought.