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Originally Posted by BunYip
Ok I need suggestions, if there are any. Everytime I look at my new neighbour I want smash his face into a wall. I think this a bt of an over-reaction. My T has asked me to look for things I dislike about him. I have only really met him twice but just looking at him from my window when he is in the yard below still get sthe same reaction. When I am physically near him i cant look at him, I have to look past him or at the ground. How am I supposed to isolate what it is that triigers me when i can't go near him???
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Imo, a visceral reaction like that doesnt happen often but it should be listened to. Where is your ts head? Women usually have a problem that they are TOO polite instead of listening to their instincts. The guy doesnt have to get near you or your kids to prove you right - you have the right to keep your distance NOW.