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Originally Posted by clairerobin
You're making this very personal. It's not personal. It's black and white. Unless and until it can be proven it's your child, you have the right to be left in peace.
If it ends up being your child, let's be honest, it's not the end of the world. Although I'm sure it feels like that.
Right now you are doing exactly what she wants: panicking. That's not in your best interest. I realise you are under attack. But keeping your head while you're under attack is a much better tactic, than buying into her projected fear.
Take a breath, watch a movie, meditate, do anything to get out of panic mode. Give it a rest and come back to it with a determination to keep it in the realms of rational thought.
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woah, it's alright. I'm not worried I was not panicked at all before I was angry only was panicked till I saw the date. I can't get her pregnant from many miles away in the future after doing so once 4 years ago before her tubes were tied. They were undone I guess when she turned 18. She was 17 at the time. I was barely 18. So also to keep in mind.
I definitely know it's not mine. She did this to upset and make me panic, because she knows how to upset me. Whether she was sarcastic too or not, she's not funny ever, she was always like that.
I don't care who knocked her up I'm glad it was not me. I know also I was upset because my friend who passed away I've been talking about on here quite a bit helped me get away from her and is my best friend. I felt seeing her ugly head rear around really got the better of me.
I'm ok. I just glad I am away from that nightmare and I did block her again on this phone even if it might be temporary, because I'm getting a new phone soon.