Yes, I have worried about that and also worried that T and marriage counselor would be disappointed in me. I know they have worried about me because a couple months ago, when I was going through a really rough time, T actually told me "We were really worried about you" (referring to herself and MC). In one way, I felt bad that they were worried, but in another, it was nice to know they cared that much (and it felt like actual caring, not just "I only care in the sense that it's my job").

Someone upthread said that worrying meant they weren't doing anything about it, but in this case, they were answering my after-hours calls, talking to me on the weekend or late at night, letting me know they saw my texts, etc. And again, it felt like they were doing that because they cared (based on how their voice sounded, etc.), not because they just felt a professional obligation.