Notwithhaste - you didn't break anybody!

I also don't find anything in your follow-up description as abusive either. At its extreme worst, I can see it as being emotionally draining for the therapist - but she should be trained on how to take care of herself. As others have mentioned, this is what she's paid to do. It's what separates a career in the mental health field from social hour with friends.

Yes we are clients, not friends, but that does entitle us to express ourselves however it happens to come out. (Excluding property damage, physical threats, and truly terrorizing behaviors.)

What I find chilling in your descriptions in the therapist continuing on despite your tears. That is never okay!