I think my husband and I actually had a break through and might be on the road to recovery with our struggle.
It is so crystal clear in hind sight after we had our regular cycle of fighting until we finally connect.
I'm sorry to be vague about the details. It is soooo long and complicated. But I feel like we finally have an understanding, and I feel hopeful that we can work this out.
I am hopeful and that feels really good. I pray that he will let it sink in this time and remember he needs to act next time. Fingers crossed.