I understand that I'm not the only one, but I have come across no others in my life who were in the same boat. It's good that you don't care about that kind of thing, but most others do, as it allows for a stigma to be attached to that person; many can't comprehend how someone could possibly fail to form a connection with even one person unless there was something seriously with that individual. My younger brother is getting married in a few months and he was tasked with assembling 5 groomsmen to match her 5 bridesmaids, and all I could think to myself was who in the hell I would even ask if I were in my brother's position; I apologize if I sound sexist but I know for a fact that there are women who think about things like this. Thank you for responding.