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Originally Posted by ReddSkyes
Thanks.
I have mentioned it. Talked to him about it. He maintains that he was taking a "break" and meant no harm. It was always later when I'd realize he was mad about something. I don't know if he will ever "get" my side of things. He can understand, as he is very intelligent. But will he care? Will understanding make a dent in that thick head of his? I don't think so.
I recently, flat out told him to STOP doing a particular thing to me. I told him in no uncertain terms... "Do not do it again. Please." I'll wait until Monday to check my email. Don't want his reply to ruin my weekend.
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Wow, it sounds like he's a passive aggressive person! There are lots of sites on here that can help you figure out how to deal with people like that. Youtube has lots of helpful videos on there. Look them up.
If you tell him to stop doing something, and he STILL does, it, then you need to tell him to stop doing that again or ELSE you will not respond back to him, talk to him, text him, email him, whatever. Then DO it!
When you show others that they there will be consequences for their actions, it can motivate them to adjust how they end up treating you. If all else fails, then maybe it's time to move on and find better friends, or to just keep him as a casual acquaintance.