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Originally Posted by TerriLynn
I feel like when I do heal, that when I am put into a situation where I have to deal with my abuser(s) that I wont go into panic/freeze mode. That I would be able to defend myself, and my daughter.
That healing would also help me feeling more self confident in dealing with any authority figure who behaves poorly, belittles me, name calls, etc.
That if I healed, I could stop feeling like a child, at the age of 45. I could start to feel like an adult.
Just a few things off the top of my head.
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Those make sense to me. I went no contact, but saw (and am seeing) people when my mother died. Every time i spoke to my brother, for example, i got a little stronger. Its like im no longer caught in the river current, flailing about. But working with t behind the scenes got me there.