You sound exactly like me, though I often find that explicit sex descriptions (books, fanfiction...don't ask, I don't read them often) make me sick to my stomach, and it's never really occurred to me to look at porn. Why would I want to watch that? Back to sex scenes, there's also something really animalistic and...undignified about the whole thing that's just gross to me. Again a kind of "Why would anyone want to do that?"

And yet, I experience attraction, would like to be with someone romantically, and have occasionally wondered about sex with an actual person.

Sound familiar?