Your first paragraph sounds familiar, SOE. Only I've never experienced romantic or physical attraction. I am curious about the 'mechanics' of sex - not the tab A into slot B thing, but more like "So you like a guy.. and maybe he likes you too.. what do you say?" or "So you want to sleep with a guy.. how do you go on about establishing mutual want and deciding to act on it"?
It's the way I'm curious about everything I cannot imagine.