Geez. I had a crush on a guy who lived in my apartment building, and it used to kill me to run into him and his gfs on the elevator at random times, so i can sympathize. I agree with others here tho - protect yourself and block her from being able to blindside like this again. or only open her emails in your ts office - thats what i used to do with my mothers voicemails and snailmails; then at least you have support during the event .