I did not mean I am not interested in having conversations with these girls. What I meant was that I am not really interested in the kind of smalltalk that you make with strangers. I am introverted. The reason I want to talk to girls is because I am attracted to them, not because I want to make smalltalk. If I were to have a conversation based on what I am actually interested in talking to them about it would be something like "Hi what's your name? How old are you? Do you have a boyfriend? What kind of guys do you like? What are your hobbies?" But this kind of approaching is not acceptable. Guys are supposed to instead make jokes or talk about the weather. I am not good at that kind of talk. Do you understand what I mean now?

Oh and when I do try to make smalltalk, I usually end up saying something dumb and embarrassing myself. For example this girl at the gym, I hadn't seen her for a while because she had quit the recently come back, so I said "You quit for a while right?" Then when she said yes I said "because I used to see you at the front desk pretty much every day." Well first off I didn't used to see her that often so that's stupid of me to say, and also why do I need to say that I used to see her every day? She obviously knows that. The reason I am saying these stupid things is because I am saying what I think I should be saying and not what I naturally want to say.