Hello Alishaannalorasa: Welcome to PsychCentral... from the Skeezyks! May you find the time you spend here to be of benefit.

I've written this numerous times before, here on PC, with regard to posts similar to yours. I used to know a guy who was fond of saying: "If you want to know where the bullet's going, look down the barrel of the gun." If you re-read what you've written here, you'll see what your future holds for you if you stay with this boyfriend.

Maintaining a long-term relationship is tough under the best of circumstances. Trying to do so with someone such as the gentleman you describe will be a Herculean task. I know you wrote that he is good to you & tries to help you out. No one is all good or all bad. We're all complex mixtures of both. So the question becomes, are the good things he brings to your relationship enough to overcome his lying, cheating & girl-chasing? Only you know the answer to that question. I wish you well...