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Old Apr 11, 2016, 03:37 PM
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Yes, what the Skeezyks said!


Love alone is not enough, you can love him till the cows come home, it doesn't mean the relationship will or should work.


Just because he's a generally good person and helps you out doesn't make him good bf material, you need to learn how to separate the two.


Simply put, there is no relationship without trust.


Staying with him will mean committing to looking over your shoulder all the time, checking his phone, social media, emails... Is that really the future you want?


More importantly, what kind of role model will he be to your daughter?

How are you going to explain his wandering eye to her? Since he's so very obvious about it...


Would you be ok with your daughter growing up believing this is the proper representation of a good man, and she should strive to date and marry one just like him?


Obviously just thinking points, I'm not asking you to answer those very personal questions.


If it was me? I'd walk away, I could never live my life feeling like I'm always competing with every girl that walks by.


A good partner will make you feel special, not like you're easily replaceable by random girls in a store.


Read your post and pretend your daughter wrote it, then take the advice you would give her.
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