I can relate I am on luvox visteral and just started some clonopin as well. i agree with what skeezyks said the only thing i thought i'd say is sometimes it just takes some time. i don't know if that is the case with you, but i had a lot of difficulty with sex until the meds had been in my system a while. now it is better. i also lowered the dosage of my ssri by 50, with my pnurse on board with it. i think that helped
i'm a woman so i know it's a bit different but the general principles may apply i think.