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Originally Posted by Shadix
It makes no difference if I'm attracted to her looks or her personality, all that matters is that I barely know her and I am attracted to her. For some reason, many girls these days think that is creepy unless they happen to feel the same way about the guy. To come to think of it, girls usually think it's creepy when they know the guy as well. So basically it is only ok if they have a thing for him. Apparently this is supposed to be the age where guys just wait for the girls to show interest in them and otherwise never show interest in any girl. Society expects me to just be a good boy and choose one of the girls who showed interest in me, instead of pursuing the ones I actually like.
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Society doesn't expect anything from you because frankly society doesn't care. There is no collective society that care who you date and what you do. You can do whatever you want as long as you don't break the law.
You are free to pursue the ones you like, for example ask out the ones at your gym. Or take a class. But you aren't doing it. It's not society's problem. If you have social anxiety then see if you can learn some skills in therapy. But society is not to blame.
How do you know what girls nowadays think or want as you don't talk to them and aren't interested in conversation with them and really don't know any of them. Get to know them