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Originally Posted by notwithhaste
She did it again. I went to the session...and she threatened to terminate again. This time, "so it's not sudden," three months from now.
I had another breakdown and cried everywhere. She semi-reconsidered. She said that she's "right on the edge," but willing to take a step back with me.
At the end of the session, I said, "Please don't dump me" - and she said, "I could just as easily say, 'Please don't drive me to it.'"
I'm heartbroken...and wondering if maybe she's right about me. Maybe it is all my fault. Who knows?
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I'm sorry you went through that again. It really sounds to me like emotional abuse on her part, the whole, "OK, we're gonna terminate," leading to you begging and getting upset, to her being like, "Well, OK, I'll reconsider," then her trying to shift the blame on you, with the "please don't drive me to it." Honestly, it reminds me of how my relationship with my college boyfriend went at the end, with him wanting a break, me begging for another chance, etc. You need a different T.
