Try not to compare yourself. Easier said than done, but it can really help and take a load off. Do you want these things? If so is it because you want them or because society says you should have them? If you truly want these things, take a mini step towards it. For instance stability..maybe look at apartments online. I don't know your situation. But in general, when I feel shtty, I try to be gentle with myself. Not hard on myself or beat myself up. Make a list of 3 things that made you smile, on the outside or on tue inside today. Hang in there.