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Old Apr 12, 2016, 07:20 AM
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I feel like a slut and I'm ashamed. I met a guy from Tinder last night and kinda lost my virginity. "Kinda" because we only did it for a minute, and he didn't go all the way in because it hurt. But now I feel bad about myself for doing it with a guy I just met. And because I wanted to do it. I'm also making plans to meet another guy this Friday where we'll probably have sex, and I'm seeing the first guy again on Sunday. I just feel like I'm being promiscuous and bad, and the fact that it's what I want makes me feel ashamed. I know that if this situation was about someone else, I would think they can do whatever they want with their body and it's their choice. But with me, it just makes me feel like a slut. What do I do?
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