Thanks for all the different opinions! I am on meds, which help to some extent but don't entirely treat the depression and anxiety.

I've considered FMLA but can't afford to take unpaid time off. I do not have short term disability insurance. My health insurance has a $4500 deductible before the 30% copay kicks in; I can't afford to see my therapist any more either.

I am looking for new jobs but don't have reliable transportation so that's kind of on hold for now. I guess I just need to find a way to disconnect from work the moment I walk out the door.