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Originally Posted by ilikecats
Last night I had sex for the first time with a guy I met on Tinder. I feel slutty and ashamed about it. I have plans with another guy on Friday where we'll have sex, and I'm seeing the first guy again on Sunday. I liked it, and I want to do it more. But this makes me feel like I'm bad. I don't know what to do, and I kinda want to talk to my T about it, but I'm ashamed of what I did and that I liked it.
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Definitely talk to your T about it. I'm sure you'll probably feel awkward about it, but T's are used to discussing those topics. Sex can bring about all kinds of feelings--good and bad, and it helps to discuss them. You can just start out by saying you feel weird/awkward talking about this but want to.
Also, if you're feeling bad about it, maybe reconsider seeing the other guy on Friday? Or else hold off on having sex with him? Since it sounds like you just assume you will. To clarify, this is not me judging you--this is me just trying to make sure that seeing another guy Friday is what you want. And isn't just going to make you feel worse.
When do you see your T? Just wondering if it's before the weekend.