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Old Sep 12, 2007, 04:05 AM
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I know you might feel that it would bring bad luck to bring up what you are feeling with your boyfriend, but the truth is....in any relationship.....communication is the most important thing. If he is treating you like a princess & will continue treating you that way because he loves you, then you have nothing to fear it talking to him about how you are feeling. The only way to completely put yourself at ease is to open up & talk to him.

Tell his what you are feeling yet not in a clingy sort of way.....just say that you have been feeling a little distince between the 2 of you lately & you were wondering if there was anything to your feelings. If there isn't open communication in a relationship.....it will NEVER last.....no matter how much you want it to.

You don't have to make a big deal out of asking your question.....just say that you have been feeling that way & wondered if he was feeling that way too? That way he can put you at ease & it can only help with your self esteem if you truely are mistaken in your feelings.

Don't loose it....gain some control this way,
Debbie
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