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You sound like such a wonderful husband. My poor husband has suffered through my depression and in the end it nearly split us up. I hope you can get help for her, as in therapy, it may be delayed post natal depression as someone said, it doesn't necessarily happen straight after birth. In my opinion a womans self esteem does go down after childbirth, but, as much as you try to build her up, if she is really depressed, she really needs proffessional help. I wish you all the luck in the world, feel free to pm me any time. I wish my husband could have shared pc with me, he may have understood things better.

jinnyann xoxoxoxoxo