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Old Apr 12, 2016, 04:09 PM
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Originally Posted by s4ndm4n2006 View Post
I'm not sure how you see your post as supportive or helpful. "get another opinion" meaning, from whom? How does your attempt to calling her behavior as attention seeking in any way supportive, helpful, encouraging or anything at all? Seriously let's break this down. when you call someone's post an attention seeking one you are saying that most, if not all of it has one goal, that is, to actually just get attention for behavior. In what way do you seriously think that your response is based on knowing anything about the poster at all?

After all there are plenty of posts on this forum.. please read through... that are entirely based on sexual behavior. I'm not sure that calling someone out as being attention seeking because they are talking about this aspect of their behavior is valid what soever. Having sexual issues is a legitimate concern whether it be a male having trouble with something physical, or a person having issues with wanting too much of it.

Please stop and think about what you're saying before you call people out as being anything but sincere on this site, if you lack the evidence to do so. If you have the evidence of it and they are breaking any rules, I suggest you report them instead but in all honesty I find nothing in her posts that would justify that.

Or simply do not respond if you have no encouragement or support to give.
Who are you to judge what is supportive or not? Sometimes a person needs plain speaking or a different POV to make sense of what happened in real life. That's what this site is about, everyone agreeing or sympathizing with the op is not always helpful. The post was not intentionally unsupportive just because you took it that way. Let the op decide things like that.
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