Hello, I am getting married this July to a wonderful person.I have had bad and abusive relationships before and i have seen my parents fight. Since two years i am single and I am enjoying life. But I am scared of marrying as i dont want to lose my independence. I dont want to fight.I am really scared about getting amrried.Getting pregnant would affect my job.I dont want to stop earning. though conceiving a child would be after 2 or 3 years.But still I am scared.Please help