everyone has made good points.

I just wanted to add that I was once kicked and banned from an msn group for BPD - BECAUSE I POSTED SILLY PICTURES OF MYSELF WITH PINK HAIR!

The owner wrote me and told me that she didn't beileve I had BPD, and that she thought I was full of myself and vain and didn't belong to their group.

I was in SHOCK. So i understand completely where you are coming from. I think you will find this board pretty balanced though, and the odd time an unsupportive post gets posted it usually is spotted by someone and gets removed. And the mods here are VERY good to talk to if you feel a thread is getting carried away or you are being attacked, let them know! There is a list of moderators at the very bottom of each forum screen off the the left. Feel free to PM anyone if you are questioning anything.