If you consider this number of calls/texts excessive then hell, my family and I must be absolutely obsessed with each other lol. The one thing that REALLY stood out to me was "my wife's grievances ARE valid". I'm not sure if that was a typo or what but I don't see this behavior she has towards your own kids as valid whatsoever. No matter what your children are guilty of, they are your kids and there's never any reason for you to dump them or think that they deserve less from you. I could tell you loads of crap I've done in my life, yet my family and I will always have unconditional love. I think your wife and you should seek counseling to get down to why she feels so jealous. There must be some underlying issues there.

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