I'm going thru something similar and I know what you are going thru. I know with my situation I felt chemistry with this other person that I really don't have with my current boyfriend. I am trying to work on the relationship to reignite the fire and I am ending it if I can't. Sometimes relationships can't be fixed and it made me realize I don't need to settle for a unhappy relationship. Unfortunately the person I had chemist ry with is married so I will not pusue it no matter what happens in my current relationship but who knows maybe one day we will both br single I still think about hinlm