I have been seeing my T for 2 years now. I am starting to feel stronger, but I dread termination issues. We have talked about this and he told me that ending therapy will be a decision either made by me or by us.

The problem is that now I am seeing him every week. He knows better than to suggest that we see every other week because it would make me become totally obsessive. I think that he hopes that I will make the decision to go to every other week but I really don't want to do that. I feel so much better seeing him every week. I hate feeling so dependent and I almost feel like I am taking advantage of him (even though I am paying him). I can't fathom the time when I will be able to accept the fact that I will never see him again. It's very frustrating!