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Originally Posted by unaluna
You can do it by taking a break. Its doctors orders. Its your health or hers. After a few months (or years), when you have built up your psychological strength, you can try resuming a different relationship. You dont have to be the better person, a saint really, and keep putting up with their weird abusive ego games.
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I second this. Taking care of you is important and setting boundaries will help the relationships in the long run. I've had to completely step away from a whole group of people. It's hard and sometimes lonely, but i'm creating a new me, a safer place, and I am feeling better.