I guess I don't understand what that even means or why it would have come up. Is you T saying she can't help you because of her own issues or something? You call that judgmental towards you, but it sounds more judgmental of herself, but again, I'm not sure I'm understanding what you are saying.

I don't think I've ever really experienced any of my T's as judgmental. Yes, they had some firm opinions about certain things, but it was more about making me aware of my options (and my stubbornness to even look at them) than about personal judgment.