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Originally Posted by lolagrace
I guess I don't understand what that even means or why it would have come up. Is you T saying she can't help you because of her own issues or something? You call that judgmental towards you, but it sounds more judgmental of herself, but again, I'm not sure I'm understanding what you are saying.
I don't think I've ever really experienced any of my T's as judgmental. Yes, they had some firm opinions about certain things, but it was more about making me aware of my options (and my stubbornness to even look at them) than about personal judgment.
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Maybe I am not explaining it properly. I am saying it in the context of me as a trainee therapist and t being judgemental of my process or lack as progress as she sees it.
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Originally Posted by BunYip
If thats the case then there must be millions of ineffectuals T world wide. Staggering. So a T who has never suffered physical abuse couldn't treat someone who suffered it. I guess I don't inderstand the question either.
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Sorry for not really explaining it well, it made sense in my head and yet I was afraid of saying too much. I guess I wanted to protect my own t, me and the process!
I know from experience that there are lots of ts who have not done their work and therefore if we apply my ts view on this they cannot work with a client until they do their own work on themselves.
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