Since T's are human and have human experiences I don't expect them to have all of their life issues solved. I know T has childhood issues fortunately, she was never abused (she has stated multiple times she wasn't abused that she knows of). However, I know of some of the challenges she has faced and still deals with. I like that she doesn't lead the perfect life and have ALL the answers. She is normal. She knows how to help see things differently and evaluated and often change my unhealthy thought process.