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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
I remember in other posts you mentioned that you were the one to approach the guy. Assuming you had approached this guy first, makes me think he was either slightly put off that you did that and/or not really interested in you. Some guys are put off by aggressive women. And some guys who are not interested, will do anything to avoid confrontation, and lead on a woman and then just disappoint her, rather than just being honest up front.
I'm not saying you did anything wrong. This is just my gut feeling about what happened from my experience.
Unless he comes back profusely apologizing to you with a great excuse, forget him. He wasn't right for you.
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I don't think it's wrong to contact a guy first as sometimes online people might not see each other profiles. It doesn't make one aggressive.
For example on egarmony you get "what if" profiles sent to you and the only way to connect to that person is to contact them as they don't see your profile, my fiancée didn't see my profile at all and to this day is grateful I contacted him. If I sat around we would never meet as he never knew I existed.
I was more concerned about this mans subsequent lack of interest. Often when they wait long before meeting you and never initiate anything ( all is Initiated by you) they aren't there for a relationship or might be scammers ( I was scammed before). If man likes you, he'll contacting you often and ask you on a date pretty soon. They also wouldn't just text. They would want to talk. If they just text they might not be who they say they are. Especially if it goes on for weeks.