My wife and I are currently separated. We have been for about a month now. We have been married for two and a half years, and have been together six. Roughly six months ago things started to go downhill. I found out she was meeting someone on the side, no sex or anything between them, she just couldn't confide in me so she started talking to another male friend. I kind of drove her to that. I took her for granted and forgot that she was my wife. The sex stopped and we just didn't get along. We would sit in the same room and barely talk to each other. So on to the present, we went to counseling once and things were better for a month then it went back downhill. She has the house and I have my own apartment. She wanted the divorce now she isn't sure, but she gets mad when I bring up separation, says it makes her uncomfortable to talk about it. If she wanted it why would it make her uncomfortable? She says she possibly wants to reconcile but whenever I ask the only answer I get is "I don't know" and"I can't answer that right now" I'm just confused how can you want the divorce but now get angry when I bring it up. We got into a bad argue don't and I said just write it up and let's be done and she got so mad at me for it. I just don't understand. I love my wife and want to work it out but it's getting harder every day. I'm trying to keep communication lines open but if I didn't text her she prob wouldn't text me back. She asked me to move out and I did. I. Think she just wanted the easy way out but she realizes it may have been s mistake. I make the majority of the money for the household, or I did. I think she may be hanging on just for finances. I did ask her why she is hanging on I but she said she didn't want to talk about it. I want to stay with her but I don't know. Anyone have any advice or and insight to what they think she is thinking?