i feel on the boards like im beginning to have a position that is accepted. in chat however i almost always feel totally excluded and abandoned because the conversation is between people i dont know from adam or because there are a large amount of people registered as in chat but i cant see them i.e. they are in private chat. i dont know who they are or if they would let me join their chat if i knew who they were. it triggers a lot of invisibility and abandonment issues in me.
im not complaining about how things are since a lot of people seem to find that the current situation works. im just stating my experience.
biiv