T1 has always encouraged Emails. If she didn't hear from me, I was often questioned about it, which kind of annoyed me at times. Now she knows I only Email her if I "feel" like it. She was also quite open with texts until fairly recently. She felt her devices were "taking over her life" so she turned off Email notifications, and asked clients not to text her. It was not easy, felt like yet another thing she ws taking awa, but I've survived.

T2 is also open to Emails, and always responds. I don't email her very often. She also allows texts, which I use even less than I do Emails. But knowing I can...well, that's a good feeling.