I would look into family of origin. I had to work hard with my therapist on figuring out my attraction to men with whom I just couldn't stay and had to leave. They are all very successful type A men who are loving BUT ( and this is big but) very difficult to be with, difficult like my dad. The longest I stayed was 9 years ( he also drank), and I was married for 5, but the rest were few years or a year the most. They were all clones of each other.

My t ensured me they aren't all the same I just had to recognize red flags right away not years later.

Work with your t on figuring this out. Are you in general satisfied with your life? Your career? Your health? Your life overall? When you are in a good place in life there is more chance to meet people who will enhance your life.

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