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Old Apr 15, 2016, 09:19 AM
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Originally Posted by monalisasmile View Post
Maybe I am not explaining it properly. I am saying it in the context of me as a trainee therapist and t being judgemental of my process or lack as progress as she sees it.

Sorry for not really explaining it well, it made sense in my head and yet I was afraid of saying too much. I guess I wanted to protect my own t, me and the process!
I know from experience that there are lots of ts who have not done their work and therefore if we apply my ts view on this they cannot work with a client until they do their own work on themselves.
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I do believe that a therapist needs to have gotten their own issues under control before taking on clients. So I kind of agree with the therapist on this idea.
I did not understand what you meant in the first post.
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