In reference to OkCupid, you really do have to look. I met and dated more than one guy on there and ended up meeting my husband there actually. I would definitely say that with online dating there tends to be two types of people...the type that just want to fool around and the type that are just as shy and insecure as the rest of us. A dating "resume" may be kind of accurate, but it's better than serial dating and hoping someone shares your interests. If you have trouble talking positively about yourself, why not have a friend help you write it?