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Originally Posted by spaceandcountry
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When you push people away that you are dating what is that you want them to do? or why do you push them away? you do not hate the person or anything like that right?
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No I don't hate them. I do have my personal issues of abuse I live with so I get easily scared of new people inside.
When I push them away and I like them I don't want them to see me in pain or like she says I am not good enough. It's our way of saying I want you close, but my anxiety is making things hard for me to let you close but I don't want you to leave. I'm trying sorry for worrying you.
I push people away sometimes because I don't know if she relates to this but because I feel I'm the problem and that I find it hard to believe someone likes anything about me.