Whoa this isn't exactly what I need!!!! Seems like a lot of attractive ladies on these sites which I find curious. Being a guy the physical is naturally going to get my attention. I do feel like I'm sort of fanning a fire because I'm still trying to cope with a fairly devastating bought with unrequited love. What I don't need is a lot of negative feedback if I do decide to meet somene. I don't know - I like being alone.