I talked about some sexual stuff related to my past relationship and I couldn't even look at her. I said everything that I wanted to say while staring at the floor and then she sort of repeated everything back to me to show that she understood and then the session was over. It was more like I had to say the stuff in order to be able to move on and wasn't really looking for advice. So in the moment, it was only half bad but she didn't seem to bat an eye or be embarrassed in the slightest.
However, a couple of months later we had a rupture and then I was absolutely horrified that I had said some of the things to her. To this day, I still feel horrified and can't believe that I said the things that I did. If we had never had the rupture, I'm sure that I would have been 100% ok with it since she was so comfortable with the topic.
Hope this helps!
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