I'd give him a deadline on finding a job and tell him when the deadline comes there will be no more allowance. Then do stop the allowance. He has transportation to school and he has his bills covered anything else he wants he needs to fund himself, including clothing and special food. He can eat what's on the table or make it himself. Doesn't need to be an all or nothing deal of kicking him out, but the extras are on him.
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