Hello neutrino: Well... the one thing the Skeezyks knows about anything related to sex & gender is that it can be endlessly complicated, especially if one does not fall neatly into the male / female gender binary. I'm now in my mid 60's. And, while sexuality went by the wayside for me going on 20 years ago now, I still puzzle over my gender identity & how that relates to all of my other mental health problems. I don't know if there is even a real answer to the whole thing. But, even if there is, I would say the chances of my finding it are pretty-much nil at this point in my life.